What will happen if you realize

 What if you became convinced that everything in life happens for a reason and for a purpose to serve you? What if you believed deep in your heart that life doesn't happen to you, but FOR YOU, that every event that touches you helps you grow so that you can become more, rejoice more and give more !!!

If you get out of this place, problems will not be a source of pain and despair for you but will allow YOU to grow so that you can rise to heights and reach where others do not reach. To see gain where others see loss, to feel excitement where others feel fear, to see success where others see failure. You will leave feeling grateful even for some of the problems and pain you feel in life.

This is the story of Tony Robbins, today one of the best trainers in the world, who teaches millions of people in more than 100 countries and his books sell tens of millions of copies. When he was a child, he lived in a poor family, and money was always out of his reach. Their lack of money caused numerous brawls at home. Tony sometimes had to knock on neighbors' doors and ask for food for himself, his brother and sister. At the age of 11, something unusual happened on Thanksgiving Day. A story I have read many times but whenever I return to it I can't help but shed a tear. There was no food in the house as usual, but this time a knock sounded at the front door. A man was standing on the stairs with bags filled with enough food for Christmas dinner. It was a gesture from a good man who expected nothing in return....

One event planted a seed that changed the lives of millions of people around the world forever. Tony decided that if people could take care of them, he could take care of strangers. He promised himself that he would find a way to repay his debt. When he was 17 years old working as a night watchman, he saved enough to buy food for two families on Thanksgiving Day and personally showed up at their home, just as a stranger once did at his house. The next year he managed to feed four families, and then eight more. After a few years, he got his friends involved, and today his foundation provides meals to 2 million people a year in 36 countries, and Tony Robbins himself sees God's hand in it and calls it grace....

If you find in your heart the conviction that life doesn't happen to you, but FOR YOU, doors will open for you that you haven't noticed until now. Opportunities you didn't know existed will show up before you, and problems will become catalysts for change leading to the realization of your dreams.

Instead of focusing on your troubles, you will discover what you get from life thanks to them. If life happens FOR YOU, then all the problems, failures and pain you experience are meant to give YOU something, and only you can discover what you get from them. 

It's possible that you'll discover new skills, it's possible that you'll develop new habits, become stronger, more eloquent, more courageous, it's possible that you'll break through the barriers that have limited you so far, or maybe you'll end a toxic relationship or declare bankruptcy of a company that was bowing down and sucking all the positive energy out of you anyway. 

Sometimes something ends so that something new bigger and much better can begin.

So either you can be stuck in sadness, despairing over your fate, or you can become convinced that everything that happens to you is for YOU. So that you can become better, develop new skills and benefit from the gifts you receive. The decision is entirely up to YOU, so make it right away.

Yes here and now - NOW